I must say, all things considered, 2016 was good to me. Robby joined the Army, I began my Masters, we moved to Arizona, and we grew a TON.
My vision board for 2016 was centered on the words strength and adventure. I knew I was going to need strength to live apart from my husband for seven months while he was in training. (I didn't know that we would be separated for eleven months and counting!). I also knew that I was going to have to look at the whole year with a sense of adventure because there were so many unknowns we were walking into.
Here were some of my goals:
1. Strengthen my marriage despite the distance
2. Create a home in which to exercise hospitality
3. Grow myself through art and creativity
4. Pursue my education
5. Practice self-care
In January, I applied for and got into the master's program in Counseling at Liberty. In February, Robby went off to basic training and began his career in the Army. In March, alone without my husband, I found creative projects to keep myself productive and busy. I was able to create a quilt from start to finish and am very proud of it! In April, Robby graduated basic training and we were reunited after two and a half months completely apart. It was magical! In May, I moved my entire life from Dallas to Arizona to be near my husband as he began the next leg of his training. I gained a ton of independence and counted it to be a fantastic adventure. In June, I finally began my master's classes and fell completely in love with what I was learning. In July, I was able to return home to Dallas and meet my baby nephew for the first time (definitely the highlight of my summer!). In August, Robby and I got very plugged into our church here in Sierra Vista, and I found a new source of relational and spiritual health. In September, I drove all the way to San Diego by myself and went on a solo adventure. In October, I got my first tattoo (something I never thought I'd do!). In November, we hosted Thanksgiving for 18 Soldiers inside of our tiny one bedroom apartment. Finally, in December, I checked two things off of my bucket list - Robby and traveled down Historic Route 66, stopping to see Cadillac Ranch (where I spray painted a car!) and then we camped in the Grand Canyon.
All in all, I accomplished my goals. My marriage is stronger and we are now in year three. My home is a safe haven for the many friends we've made. I've taken up calligraphy, learned to hand embroider, and I made a quilt! I've completed 40% of my master's degree and expect to graduate this coming summer. I have found many ways to practice self-care through beginning to journal again, using essential oils, continuing yoga, spending time in meditation, and progressing in my quest for minimalism.
I also grew in many unexpected ways. I surprised myself. I gained more independence, I dove fully into a new church, I traveled more than I thought I would, and for crying out loud, I got a freaking tattoo!! How awesome! I love that I've been stretched and challenged so much this year. I've grown a lot and I am proud of myself.
2017 brings many more unknowns, but I am looking forward to what it will bring. No matter the exact circumstances, I know it's going to be good.